Rockstar or ugly duckling? – By Lei

It is so funny to watch the reactions of people on the street as we walk by with Jaiden in his stroller. I would pay money to know what these people are thinking.

• Some smiles like they just saw the cutest thing ever
• Some looks shocked. They continue walking but keeps their eyes fixed on the strange thing in the stroller
• Some quickly alerts their walking companion and say “look look look”
• Some looks at Jaiden, looks at us and then back to Jaiden. They are probably thinking “what are these parents doing? Giving a baby a big hat in this 90 degree temperature”
• Some looks at Jaiden with extreme pity. They probably think the boys has a serious medical condition

Understanding God through the eyes of a worldly father - By Lei

Blocked by the helmet by Lei


One of my favorite father & son activities so far has been kissing Jaiden wildly on his soft and chubby cheeks. It is a moment I look forward to daily if not hourly. Recently due to a flat head condition, Jaiden now has to wear a custom made helmet to reshape his head. Jaiden looks very cute in the helmet but the helmet has limited my access to his big cheeks. The discovery of this obstacle was a shocking and sad one for me. I sometimes hit my nose on the plastic shell of the helmet as I try to kiss Jaiden. Though this is a short-term and minor “condition”, I can’t help but to wonder: what are the conditions we have that prevent us from connecting with our heavenly father? How do these obstacles make God feel as he desires to connect with us?


See attached picture for the cool helmet that Jaiden will likely have to wear for next 3-4 months (23 hrs a day)

Home again and ready for a new season - by Jaiden Zakai

Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!!
Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!! Go RedSox!!

Understanding God – By Lei

48 hrs after we took Jaiden home from the hospital, we had to rush him back in for treatment for severe Jaundice

It was so difficult to see all the nurses drawing blood from Jaiden’s little body. The poor boy simply did not have enough blood to fill the testing tubs required for the lab tests. The nurse had to squeeze his arm and leg just to get the last drop of blood. For a boy who weighs less than 6 lbs, the test tubes looked like an Olympic size swimming pool waiting to be filled. Jaiden cried murder as he was rudely awakened by a big needle. He cried like never before, it wasn’t an “I am hungry or I wet my diaper” kind of cry. It was a cry for help, to be rescued from the most painful experience of his young life. I simply held Jaiden’s head and repeatedly said “everything is okay Jaiden, Daddy is here… Daddy loves you…”

People always told me “once you have a child then you will understand God more” Perhaps this is true. Perhaps the way I felt when I saw people stabbing Jaiden with needles is the way God feels when he sees us. To God, he knows the exact reason for the needles, for the pain, and for the tests. It is all for our benefits. However, to the clueless boy who just wanted to sleep, it was the biggest disaster of his life. Jaiden probably didn’t know he had Jaundice and needed to be rushed to ER for treatment. Jaiden for sure didn’t know he was in the best hospital in town so he can be healed. All of the “horror” was actually for him so he can continue to grow to be big and strong.

Coming home - by Lei

On my most recent trip from US back to China, I walked out the plane with a great sense of “ahh… It is good to be home… I can’t wait to see my wife”
 
This feeling is a dramatic shift from how I felt just 2 years ago after landing in China.
 
2 years ago, landing in China meant coming to a new place that I now “have” to call home.  I had left my friends, family and even Diana back in the US.  Left a place that I was comfortable and familiar with for a new land of uncertainties.  I was in Shanghai all alone so I can start a new job, find a new apt, find new friends and even find a place to buy groceries.
 
When I landed two years ago, I remember a strong sense of nervousness as emotions swelled up in me.  I was no longer a tourist. I didn’t have a set date and a plane ticket to bring me home (US).  For strange reasons, a tourist visa and a return plane ticket had offered a security blanket that I hadn’t realized.
 
I am so thankful for my last two years in this new place I now call home.  Strange how fast things change in just 2 years.  I am eager to introduce my son to his new home.